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Thursday, 23 July 2015

Biblical Marriage - Serving God, Serving Each Other

Any successful marriage is built upon the biblical truth that God designed each of us with five purposes in mind: worship, fellowship, discipleship, ministry, and missions.

You and your spouse were both shaped for serving God. The Bible says, "God has made us what we are. In Christ Jesus, God has made us to do good works, which God planned in advance for us to live our lives doing" (Ephesians 2:10, NCV).

God shapes us for service through a variety of methods, including the challenges you face in your marriage. We learn to be effective in ministry as we learn to serve our spouses, and learn, with our spouses, godly, faithful responses to life's problems and God's blessings.
Who could better help somebody recover from the pain of an addiction, a business failure, or a prodigal child than a couple who has been through these things and emerged with godly insights?
Could it be that the part of your marriage you regret or resent the most -- that which you've wanted to hide or forget -- is the very thing God wants to use as your ministry to help and encourage others sharing the same struggle? God doesn't just use our strengths; he uses our weaknesses, and even our failures!
"As for you, my friends, you were called to be free ... let love make you serve one another." (Galatians 5:13, TEV)


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BY RICK WARREN — MAY 21, 2014

CHARACTER IS THE KEY


TEXT: EPHESIANS 4:17-32.

INTRODUCTION: As the excellence of gold is its purity and the excellence of art is its beauty, so the excellence of man is his character. Persons of character are noted for their honesty, ethics, and charity. Descriptions such as “man of principle” and “woman of integrity” are affirmations of character. A lack of character is moral deficiency and persons lacking character tend to behave dishonestly, unethically, and uncharitably. Godly character can be defined as the ability to discern God’s right way from the wrong and to voluntarily surrender one’s own will to do what is right in God’s sight and, with the promised supernatural help, to resist the wrong even under pressure and temptation. Godly character is consistently doing the right thing at the time in the right way for the right reason.

A. CHARACTER GAUGE. A person’s character is the sum of his or her disposition, thoughts, intentions, desires, and actions. It is good to remember that character is gauged by general tendencies, not on the basis of a few isolated actions. We must look at the whole life. For example, King David was a man of good character (1 Samuel 13:14) although he sinned on occasion (2 Samuel 11). And although King Ahab may have acted nobly once (1 kings 22:35), he was still a man of overall bad character (1 kings 16:33). Several people in the Bible are described as having noble character; Ruth (Ruth 3:11), Hanani (Nehemiah 7:2), David (Psalm 78:72), and Job (Job 2:3). These individuals’ lives were distinguished by persistent moral virtue

B. CHOICES. Character is influenced and developed by our choices. Daniel resolved not to defile himself in Babylon (Daniel 1:8), and that godly choice was an important step in formulating an unquestionable integrity in the young man’s life. Character in turn, influences our choices. “The integrity of the upright guides them” (Proverbs 11:3a). Character will help us weather the storms of life and keep us from sin (Proverbs 10:9a).It is the Lord’s purpose to develop character within us. “The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests the heart” (Proverbs 17:3). Godly character is the result of the Holy Spirit’s work of sanctification. Character in the believer is a consistent manifestation of Jesus in his life. It is the purity of the heart that God gives which results in purity of action. God sometimes uses trials to strengthen character. “We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Romans 5:3-4). The lord is pleased when his children grow in character. “You test the heart and are pleased with integrity” (1 chronicles 29:17; see also Psalm 15:1-2). 1 Corinthians 15:33.

We can develop character by controlling our thoughts (Philippians 4:8), practicing Christian virtues (2 peter 1: 5-6), guarding our hearts (Proverbs 4:23; Matthew 15:18-20), and keeping good company (1 Cor. 15:33). Men and women of character will set a good example for others to follow, and their godly reputation will be evident to all (Titus 2:7-8).

Memory Verse: For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them (Ephesians 2:10)

Resources: N.T. Wright: After you Believe; Why Christian Character Matters.

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